Many of the women from female collective are stepping forward and clearing out the old pattern of putting up with the abuse(emotional, mental or physical)in their relationships.
Acceptance of subtle abuse which had been often ignored by women in the past are coming to the surface to be shifted into newer dimension.
It usually starts in childhood where we grow in dysfunctional families believing that:
👉We need love from our parents in order to survive and if it’s not given we need to get it in whatever way we can.
👉We never need to question our parent’s decisions as that may upset them which would mean less attention from them.
👉We are valued and needed when we are pleasing and doing what they want us to do.
👉As love doesn’t come to me all the time, I must accept whatever I get and that should be enough.
👉If my parents yell at me or hit me- I might have done something wrong. It’s normal to be ill treated by a parent. I must behave better next time to earn their love and feel safe.
Which leads us to have complex beliefs:
✨I need to keep putting up with any type of behaviour to save my relationships.
✨My needs aren’t important and I don’t need to speak up.
✨I need to behave well and look after others in order to be loved.
As you continue working on yourself and heal, your vibration shifts and you no longer resonate with the old situations or dynamics in your connection. While at first it might seem a little disconcerting, you will be surprised at how easy it will be to put boundaries in place in your relationships and take whatever action necessary to really honour yourself. This is a vital part of the healing process.
In the transition phase you will learn to live your life without patterns that you have probably had most of your life, so ask for divine support and guidance and move with it, one step at a time. The inner work involves energy healing along with understanding this pattern with your intellect. That will allow the shift to happen at cellular level for you to be able to move into a new dimension.
Wish you love and all the great things❤️