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Relationship Breakdown 👱

There are a million reasons relationships go through difficulties. There may be external factors the put pressures on your relationship – such as money, problems at work, a new baby, difficulties with family and friends.
Infidelity could be another reason. There may not be one incident in itself, but the gradual buildup of resentment and bitterness over the years caused by smaller disagreements that have taken their toll on the relationship. Little things that you always saw as Cute and adorable when you first got together now great on you intensely.
It interest to note that traditionally infidelity has number one reason cited in divorce cases.
Accordingly, according to statics ” falling out of love” – ” growing apart ” are the most common reasons cited for divorce.
It is important to take some time really to identify what the issues or problems are in the relationship.
It is not a blame game, it’s about being totally honest and both parties accepting responsibility on both sides. This can be a difficult situation for both parties. Emotions may be charged and some things are painfully to consider and indeed to talk about.
Yes, Professional Counseling is available but this path doesn’t have great success. Both of you will overspend money creating more angst between you. Friends, the family should never be consulted as you well know sides have already confirmed who on whose side they are and advice is in favor of their Opinion!?.
Australia has Lifeline right on your mobile free. It’s Private.

Facebook is the best Private Diary in the World
Oh my, please do not share your personal life on Social Media or Blogs 😅😂😨

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WISE INSPIRATION


A contented mind is a continual feast. Greed and material desires must be curbed to achieve lasting happiness and serenity. Be happy with what you have. Do you really need all of those material possessions? One can develop contentment just as one develops patience, courage and concentration – with daily practice and sincere desire.

Make a new friend or acquaintance every day. Keep an updated list of all contacts close at hand. Rich relationships are the DNA of a rich, rewarding life.

Remember this ancient Indian proverb: “if you conquer your mind, you conquer the world.”

Place greater importance on staying happy than amassing material possessions. A zest for life is developed and carefully nurtured through thoughtful activities and pursuits.

Contrary to popular opinion, stress is not a bad thing. It allows us to perform at peak levels and can assist us through the flood of chemicals it releases within our bodies. What is harmful is too much stress, or more particularly, a lack of relief from stress. The times of stress must be balanced nicely with times of pure relaxation and leisure for us to be healthy and at our best. Many of the great leaders of our time were exposed to crushing workloads and the burdens of high office. But they prospered by developing strategies to balance the challenging times with fun and calming times. President Kennedy would have regular naps in his White House office. Winston Churchill had the same practice and slept for one hour every afternoon to stay alert, focused and calm. Not only is it essential to be physically relaxed to maintain optimal health but one must couple this trait with mental serenity. Too often people think that vigorous exercise, good nutrition and pleasant leisure activities will be the panacea for all ills. These pursuits must be combined with positive thinking and peace of mind for true happiness and longevity.

Get into the habit of taking mental vacations throughout the day. Visit Bermuda for five minutes in the morning. Visualize a swim in the Mediterranean in the afternoon and skiing down the slopes of the Alps just before you head for home at the end of your busy and productive day. Try this for two months and schedule these rest periods into your agenda just as you would your essential meetings or tasks. The rewards will be significant.

A change is as good as a rest. Whether this change is as major as a change of employment or as minor as a leisure pursuit which occupies your entire attention for an hour three times a week, these changes in routine, and mindset are entirely beneficial. In selecting the activity, try to find something totally engaging which requires deep concentration so that your mind is free from the mundane but seemingly important aspects of your day. Many executives are becoming involved in the martial arts for just this reason. If your mind wanders for even a split second, a harsh lesson is soon learned. Pain is a great motivator and always will be.

Study these 10 fundamentals of happiness:

i. Pursue a productive, exciting and active life.
ii. Engage in meaningful activities every minute of every day.
iii. Develop an organized, planned lifestyle with little chaos.
iv. Set realistic goals yet keep your mark high.
v. Think positively – you cannot afford the luxury of a negative thought.
vi. Avoid needless worry over trifling matters.
vii. Devote time to fun.
viii. Develop a warm, outgoing personality with a sincere love of people.
ix. Get in the habit of giving more than receiving.
x. Learn to live in the present. The past is water under the bridge of life.

Strive to be humble and live a simple life.

Read “A History of Knowledge” by Charles Van Doren which chronicles the history of the world’s ideas. In this one book is an absolute wealth of knowledge. Get it, read it and enjoy it.

Mission template in Business – Stay Focused

Be the master of your will but the servant of your conscience. Wise INSPIRATION


Be kind, considerate and courteous. But also be shrewd and know when to be tough and courageous. This is the mark of a well-defined character and you will surely command respect. It is most useful to read books on friendliness and enhancing relationships by being a good listener, showing others sincere appreciation and refining other interpersonal skills. But, to truly succeed, one must also recognize that worldly wisdom and shrewdness are essential skills to foster. Become an expert in human psychology and be able to read the essence of people. Never be taken advantage of and be aware of the politics around you. Stay above petty gossiping and office politics but appreciate that they indeed exist and know what goes on behind your back. Every great leader does.

Create your image as a highly competent, strong, disciplined, calm and decent individual. Find that crucial balance between working on the image that you project to the rest of the world and your inner character. Create a sense of mystery about yourself as the truly wise never show their hand. Do not tell everyone everything about yourself, your strategies and your aspirations. The successful citizens of this world think thrice before they speak because a word uttered can never be retrieved. Make things look easy and people will say you are naturally gifted. Speak only good things and people will flock to you. Never speak ill of others and all will know you will not malign them behind their backs. Build your character and live a highly principled life.

Familiarity breeds contempt is a very good rule. The stars remain far above the Earth. You must keep a distance from all but your closest of relations. Once people see everything of a leader he loses his aura and with it the authority and mystique he may have created. For example, Ronald Reagan was known to many as an excellent leader. He carefully cultivated his image of a folksy, considerate politician who kept the interests of the United States first and foremost in his mind. At gatherings of world leaders, he commanded attention and respect in his dark suits, surrounded by the trappings of power such as political aides, security officers and a convoy of limousines. As soon as he appeared, thoughts of authority and power came to our minds. Did you ever see the President with his shirt off swimming at his pool? How about in his dressing gown after waking up after one of his long sleeps, hair tousled and beard grown? Reagan’s handlers never allowed such glimpses because they detract from the perception of authority. The American nation was not exposed to these sights. In the Clinton Era things changed and you saw the President eating Big Macs and wearing baseball caps with a full business suit. Whilst these scenes may be endearing to the public, there is little doubt that President Clinton was more familiar to us, merely another one of us and, unlike the stars above, much closer to the ground.

Learn to organize your time. It is incorrect to say that by becoming a meticulous time manager and living by a carefully defined schedule you become rigid and nonspontaneous. Rather, proper organization allows one to accomplish those goals which are truly important as well as enjoy leisure time. Good time management offers more time for fun and relaxation – not less. These important periods are scheduled into the week just like other commitments which may appear more pressing. Neither are sacrificed. Also, discipline yourself and stop wasting time on all those immediate and pressing but unimportant tasks (i.e., the ringing phones) and concentrate on the activities that are truly meaningful to your life’s mission. Such activities include time for self-renewal and reflection, time forging relationships built on trust and mutual respect, time for physical fitness, time to read and think deeply and time serving others in your community.

Keep well-informed about current events, the latest books and popular trends. Many peak performers read five or six papers a day. You don’t have to read every story of every paper. Know what to focus on, what to pass by and what to clip out and read at another time (many successful people scan scores of magazines and papers, clipping out articles of interest; these articles go into a file folder which can be read in your down time). Knowledge is power. Whether you are an entrepreneur, a corporate leader or someone leading a family, you can profoundly change your life and the lives of those around you with a single idea. Just ask Gates, Edison and Bell.

When choosing your life partner, remember that this is the most important decision of your lifetime. The marriage relationship offers 90% of all your support, happiness and fulfillment so choose it wisely. Consider qualities such as affection, sense of humor, intelligence, integrity, maturity, temperament, compatibility and that indescribable characteristic of chemistry. If these are present, your relationship stands an excellent chance of great success. Move slowly and let no one press you into an uncomfortable decision.

Never discuss your personal development activities with anyone. Your strategies for expanding your mind and spirit are your own. Others might not understand the value of personal-mastery and, further, will take away your credit when you meet with success by saying that you relied on techniques. Keep these self-development activities to yourself.

Schedule relaxation time into your week and be ruthless in protecting it. You would not schedule another activity into the time planned for an important meeting with the president of your company or your best client so why would you put off a period to invest in yourself? We must have time for ourselves to reflect, unwind and recharge our batteries. These are the renewal activities that allow us to maintain peak performance and are exceptionally valuable periods.

83% of our sensory input comes from our eyes. To truly concentrate on something, shut your eyes and you will remove much distraction.

Be the master of your will but the servant of your conscience.

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BODY LANGUAGE

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Secrets to Manifesting Your Soulmate💥💥💥

Secrets to Manifesting Your Soulmate
1. Raise your vibration.
Raising your vibration before doing any of the steps below will add energy to them, drawing your soulmate to you as if by magic. The more consistently you vibrate as already having your soulmate, the more you will attract your soulmate to you. Your soulmate will manifest directly into your life. Really focus into feeling awesome. Enter into a blissful state where you feel truly loved.

2. Write down everything you love about yourself and what you have to give to a relationship.
You are an amazing person with so many wonderful things to give. What are the fabulous things about yourself that you like the best? What do you want your soulmate to notice about you? What do you want him/her to love the most about you? Toot your own horn!

3. Write down your ideal relationship.
List everything you want your ideal relationship to be. Include all of the qualities you want it to express.
We’re not talking about eye color, hair color, or waist size. Focus on the important aspects of the relationship, such as:
how you feel when you’re with your soulmate
the things the two of you do together
common morals and goals
affectionate
integrity
dependable
whether you have similar or complimentary financial viewpoints and habits
whether you’re on the same page when it comes to having kids
honesty
emotionally available
sense of humor
self-assured
if you have children already or plan to have children with your soulmate, whether you have similar or compatible parenting styles
respect
supportive
good communication
Make sure to include how you would feel if you already had your soulmate in your life. How spontaneous, affectionate, and loved would you feel?
Some other things you might consider including are:

I immediately recognize my soulmate, and he/she recognizes me.
It is the most fulfilling love relationship of my life.
We are so happy together.
People tell us how inspiring our love us, and how it reminds them of what it truly means to love and be loved.
We empower each other.
We bring out the best in each other.
4. Express and appreciate those qualities within you.
Go back over your list and highlight all the feelings you wrote down about how you would feel if you already had those feelings in your life.
How can you feel those things in your life now? How can you feel loved, cherished, respected, wanted? Live your life as if those feelings were already true.
Consistently feel like you are already in a loving relationship with your soulmate.
Feel at one with your soulmate and your relationship with him/her.
If you want to get married, regularly feel a wedding ring on your finger as you go about your day. If you don’t know what this would feel like, get a ring and learn the feeling.
5. List everything you need to do first.
What do you need to do before you are ready to be in a relationship with your soulmate?
Write them all down and see if they are things you truly need to do.
If they are valid, do them and realize you are ready to manifest your soulmate. If they aren’t valid, let them go.
For example, if your home is so filthy you need a hazmat suit to walk in it safely, cleaning your house is something you need to do first. However, completing your novel probably isn’t valid. While it would be nice, it isn’t something that can keep you from your soulmate.

6. Be open!
Be open to manifesting your soulmate. Allow your soulmate to manifest in whatever way the Universe chooses.
Don’t place limitations, such as thinking your soulmate can only come to you through church or that you can only find your soulmate online. Be open to your soulmate manifesting in every way possible, both the expected and the unexpected.
What if your soulmate is your neighbor?
What if you meet your soulmate while you’re vacationing in another country?
What if you meet your soulmate in a coffee shop?
What if your soulmate finds you while he/she is on a business trip?
What if you meet your soulmate next week?
What if you meet your soulmate later tonight?

7. Be in your relationship!
You haven’t manifested your soulmate because of how you have been focusing your energy.
The more you think that you are lonely, need to find “the one,” or that you haven’t met your soulmate, the more blocks you put up to having your soulmate relationship.
You need to do everything you can to pretend you don’t need to find love.
Feel like you have already manifested your soulmate.
Pretend you are so happy and in such a loving relationship that you don’t care whether you meet anyone new or not.
Pretend that you are so happy with your love life that you don’t care if anyone responds to your online dating profile.
Live each day as if you’re already loved, cherished, and appreciated. Live as if you already have all the affection and spontaneity that you want in your world.

8. Be grateful!
Be grateful for all the ways you are already loved by friends, family, pets, nature…the Universe!
Appreciate the wonderful person you get to spend your life with.
Be thankful for meeting your soulmate now.

9. Take action!
Take action and move towards your soulmate relationship.
So many times people think the Law of Attraction is just visualizing, and then sit around and wait for something to happen. You have to be willing to move towards your goal.
Action creates a tremendous amount of energy and helps your soulmate manifest in your life.
Take action towards manifesting your soulmate, but remain detached from the outcome.

10. Consistently keep your vibration high!
Your goal is a high vibration. No matter what happens, remain at one with your soulmate and focus on what you want.
If you keep meeting “the wrong people”, don’t worry about it. It is the energy you put into creating your soulmate relationship that is important.
Know that the Universe is always listening, always there for you, and always working in your best interest to bring you good things. Don’t be impressed with outward appearances.
Keep your vibration high, remain open, and continue to take action towards manifesting your soulmate. Your relationship will come!

Judgement, Opinion of Humans is Sinful.

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What is “Sin” perhaps that word originated by man made religion. And you know that is fact.
Sin is used by man made religion to disguise ones guilt incurred by a lifetime of junk filled words. Sin is judgement of self and others. Sin is a cover up. Humans just need to be less judgemental. I have often wondered why folk use 3 words OPINION, SIN, JUDGMENT. Maybe some time on these words will be not heard. Wouldn’t that be a beautiful world.

Quote Challenge – Quotes on Truth💥💥💥💥

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If We Wish To Be One

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NATURAL SKIN PRODUCTS

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KINDNESS 💥

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FIRST TIME I SAW YOUR FACE 💙

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FANCY FACE

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