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Be the master of your will but the servant of your conscience. Wise INSPIRATION


Be kind, considerate and courteous. But also be shrewd and know when to be tough and courageous. This is the mark of a well-defined character and you will surely command respect. It is most useful to read books on friendliness and enhancing relationships by being a good listener, showing others sincere appreciation and refining other interpersonal skills. But, to truly succeed, one must also recognize that worldly wisdom and shrewdness are essential skills to foster. Become an expert in human psychology and be able to read the essence of people. Never be taken advantage of and be aware of the politics around you. Stay above petty gossiping and office politics but appreciate that they indeed exist and know what goes on behind your back. Every great leader does.

Create your image as a highly competent, strong, disciplined, calm and decent individual. Find that crucial balance between working on the image that you project to the rest of the world and your inner character. Create a sense of mystery about yourself as the truly wise never show their hand. Do not tell everyone everything about yourself, your strategies and your aspirations. The successful citizens of this world think thrice before they speak because a word uttered can never be retrieved. Make things look easy and people will say you are naturally gifted. Speak only good things and people will flock to you. Never speak ill of others and all will know you will not malign them behind their backs. Build your character and live a highly principled life.

Familiarity breeds contempt is a very good rule. The stars remain far above the Earth. You must keep a distance from all but your closest of relations. Once people see everything of a leader he loses his aura and with it the authority and mystique he may have created. For example, Ronald Reagan was known to many as an excellent leader. He carefully cultivated his image of a folksy, considerate politician who kept the interests of the United States first and foremost in his mind. At gatherings of world leaders, he commanded attention and respect in his dark suits, surrounded by the trappings of power such as political aides, security officers and a convoy of limousines. As soon as he appeared, thoughts of authority and power came to our minds. Did you ever see the President with his shirt off swimming at his pool? How about in his dressing gown after waking up after one of his long sleeps, hair tousled and beard grown? Reagan’s handlers never allowed such glimpses because they detract from the perception of authority. The American nation was not exposed to these sights. In the Clinton Era things changed and you saw the President eating Big Macs and wearing baseball caps with a full business suit. Whilst these scenes may be endearing to the public, there is little doubt that President Clinton was more familiar to us, merely another one of us and, unlike the stars above, much closer to the ground.

Learn to organize your time. It is incorrect to say that by becoming a meticulous time manager and living by a carefully defined schedule you become rigid and nonspontaneous. Rather, proper organization allows one to accomplish those goals which are truly important as well as enjoy leisure time. Good time management offers more time for fun and relaxation – not less. These important periods are scheduled into the week just like other commitments which may appear more pressing. Neither are sacrificed. Also, discipline yourself and stop wasting time on all those immediate and pressing but unimportant tasks (i.e., the ringing phones) and concentrate on the activities that are truly meaningful to your life’s mission. Such activities include time for self-renewal and reflection, time forging relationships built on trust and mutual respect, time for physical fitness, time to read and think deeply and time serving others in your community.

Keep well-informed about current events, the latest books and popular trends. Many peak performers read five or six papers a day. You don’t have to read every story of every paper. Know what to focus on, what to pass by and what to clip out and read at another time (many successful people scan scores of magazines and papers, clipping out articles of interest; these articles go into a file folder which can be read in your down time). Knowledge is power. Whether you are an entrepreneur, a corporate leader or someone leading a family, you can profoundly change your life and the lives of those around you with a single idea. Just ask Gates, Edison and Bell.

When choosing your life partner, remember that this is the most important decision of your lifetime. The marriage relationship offers 90% of all your support, happiness and fulfillment so choose it wisely. Consider qualities such as affection, sense of humor, intelligence, integrity, maturity, temperament, compatibility and that indescribable characteristic of chemistry. If these are present, your relationship stands an excellent chance of great success. Move slowly and let no one press you into an uncomfortable decision.

Never discuss your personal development activities with anyone. Your strategies for expanding your mind and spirit are your own. Others might not understand the value of personal-mastery and, further, will take away your credit when you meet with success by saying that you relied on techniques. Keep these self-development activities to yourself.

Schedule relaxation time into your week and be ruthless in protecting it. You would not schedule another activity into the time planned for an important meeting with the president of your company or your best client so why would you put off a period to invest in yourself? We must have time for ourselves to reflect, unwind and recharge our batteries. These are the renewal activities that allow us to maintain peak performance and are exceptionally valuable periods.

83% of our sensory input comes from our eyes. To truly concentrate on something, shut your eyes and you will remove much distraction.

Be the master of your will but the servant of your conscience.

Think about this 😁

To those people I have not met who would like to add me as a friend…

I hope you want me to connect as Facebook friends because you know me or my work, or because you have found my Timeline posts to your taste.

Am I being too harsh if I do not add you to my circle of friends if, when I visit your page, you have no posts to show me? What can I expect to receive from you on my feed if I accept your offer of friendship? If I cannot see your posts without first accepting your request, feel free to message me and explain what we have in common, and then I’ll add you to my network.

I already read the news and keep up with current affairs. I am already aware of many injustices in the world and I will take a stand when I can. While an occasional reminder is appropriate, I do not wish to spend much of my precious time reading large numbers of posts with negative opinions and outpourings. I would like to be mainly inspired by your posts, enlivened by your choice of music and entertained by your photos and sense of fun. When we know each other, I will empathise with any personal misfortune, but…

Negativity is debilitating and the amount on Facebook is causing my artistic output to suffer.

I look forward to connecting and being your friend if we know each other personally and well, if we can enjoy helping each other, if we share interests and outlooks and our lives can become supportive.🤗

“A leader leads with vision and wisdom”

A leader leads with vision and wisdom” selfish people cannot be leaders because they cannot see A leader leads with vision and wisdom” selfish people cannot be leaders because they cannot see beyond there own interests to see the big picture” a prophet derives from oppression, depression and regression!! The guiding premise of the universe is Morality”A leader leads with vision and wisdom” selfish people cannot be leaders because they cannot see beyond there own interests to see the big picture” a prophet derives from oppression, depression and regression!! The guiding premise of the universe is Morality”A leader leads with vision and wisdom” selfish people cannot be leaders because they cannot see beyond there own interests to see the big picture” a prophet derives from oppression, depression and regression!! The guiding premise of the universe is Morality”A leader leads with vision and wisdom” selfish people cannot be leaders because they cannot see beyond there own interests to see the big picture” a prophet derives from oppression, depression and regression!! The guiding premise of the universe is Morality”A leader leads with vision and wisdom” selfish people cannot be leaders because they cannot see beyond there own interests to see the big picture” a prophet derives from oppression, depression and regression!! The guiding premise of the universe is Morality”A leader leads with vision and wisdom” selfish people cannot be leaders because they cannot see beyond there own interests to see the big picture” a prophet derives from oppression, depression and regression!! The guiding premise of the universe is Morality”A leader leads with vision and wisdom” selfish people cannot be leaders because they cannot see beyond there own interests to see the big picture” a prophet derives from oppression, depression and regression!! The guiding premise of the universe is Morality”A leader leads with vision and wisdom” selfish people cannot be leaders because they cannot see beyond there own interests to see the big picture” a prophet derives from oppression, depression and regression!! The guiding premise of the universe is Morality”A leader leads with vision and wisdom” selfish people cannot be leaders because they cannot see beyond there own interests to see the big picture” a prophet derives from oppression, depression and regression!! The guiding premise of the universe is Morality”A leader leads with vision and wisdom” selfish people cannot be leaders because they cannot see beyond there own interests to see the big picture” a prophet derives from oppression, depression and regression!! The guiding premise of the universe is Morality”A leader leads with vision and wisdom” selfish people cannot be leaders because they cannot see beyond there own interests to see the big picture” a prophet derives from oppression, depression and regression!! The guiding premise of the universe is Morality”

SUCCESSFUL, HONESTY,TRUST

Live a simple, uncluttered and productive existence.

To simplify your life today, consider selling your television, stopping the junk mail, spending less, learning yoga, selling your car, practising meditation every morning and unplugging your ringing phone once in a while.

If you have not laughed today, you have not lived today.

Laugh hard and loud.
As William James said: “we don’t laugh because we are happy, we are happy because we laugh.”

As William James said: “we don’t laugh because we are happy, we are happy because we laugh.”


Travel often.

The perspective offered by visiting new lands is important and allows one to appreciate the existence that we generally take for granted.

Each month set a physical fitness goal for yourself.

Start to swim in July or learn to ski in January.

The key is to arrive at a goal for the month, write it down, consider how to execute it and then, as the NIKE ad says: “Just Do It!”.

Things are always created twice. There is always the mental creation which precedes the physical creation.

Just as plans for a house must first be set down on paper before the house is started, so too should your day be planned within your mind early in the morning before the day begins.

Visualize the wonders you desire this life to bring and they will materialize as your subconscious mind starts to focus on the attainment of goals. This is a true law of Nature.

WALK to work in the wonderful beauty in Nature.

Sleep less, spend less, do more, live longer and be greater.

Kindness is a many splendid thing, be grateful for the roof over your head.

Give out GRATITUDE for their acceptance of you

MANNERS is your responsibility

Peace