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The Big Five Personality Traits of Humans 💥💥

The Big Five Personality Traits
One view of personality is that five basic dimensions can explain individual differences in nature. The five sizes in the big five personality theory include extraversion, openness to experience, emotional stability, agreeableness, and conscientiousness. Below are some definitions of these five personality dimensions (and examples of personality):

Extraversion Definition:
Extraversion refers to the extent to which a person is friendly, talkative, lively, active, and excitable. A highly extroverted person would be amicable, chatty, energetic, energetic, and emotional.

Openness to Experience Definition:
Openness to experience refers to the extent to which a person is imaginative, independent, and has a preference for variety. A person who is high in openness to experience would be a creative thinker who is independent and does not like routines.

Emotional Stability Definition:
Emotional stability refers to the extent to which a person is calm and secure. A person who is very stable emotionally would remain calm in many situations and would feel safe.

Agreeableness Definition:
Agreeableness refers to the extent to which a person is agreeable, helpful, trusting, and cooperative. A person who is high in agreeableness would be caring, help others, trust others, and strive to be united in groups.

Conscientiousness Definition:
Conscientiousness refers to the extent to which a person is organised, careful, self-disciplined, and responsible. A person who is high in faithfulness would make an effort to be careful, organised, and accountable.

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Comfort zone 💜

Step outside the comfort zone
Ask yourself the question what it is that prevents you from developing the character traits you always wanted to have. What is it that stands between the person you want to be and the person that you are at the moment? Let’s say you would like to become more adventurous and outgoing. Would it really help you to accomplish your goal by remaining in the coziness of your comfort zone? I guess not! Therefore, try to identify those limitations that preclude you from being the person you really want to be. Once you identified those limits, try to push them – gradually but firmly. If you want more action in your life, get out and seek that action. Undertake something with your friends or meet some new people during your adventures alone.

Fear And Worry

Our thoughts and emotions are vibrations of energy, and as such have a direct impact on our lives. What we think and how we feel are the two most important parts of who we are. The third is our actions. Incredibly, we have the ability to monitor and direct what we think, act and feel by the thoughts we choose.

When our thoughts and emotions are directed in a positive way, they not only make us feel better, they also attract to us the conditions we are focusing on. This is sometimes referred to as the Law of Attraction. However, the exact same law is in play when we have negative thoughts or feelings about our life’s circumstances or ourselves. We must be diligent in monitoring how we think, so that negative thoughts and emotions do not find a resting place in our consciousness, then make themselves at home. Fear and worry are the two most destructive of the negative emotions, and it is these I will speak of this month.

Fear is the intense focusing of your thoughts on something you do not want to happen. By focusing on this ‘yet to happen’ event with strong emotion and intensity, you give power to these images and help to attract them. These images, charged with emotion, are powerful forces, and so imprint on the invisible matrix web of the universe, which then works to create the exact thing we fear. This is precisely what we don’t want to happen.

This is the tragedy of fear and worry, and yet often we feel we have no power over these thoughts. Here is where Mind Power comes to our assistance. Mind Power not only gives us the tools to create and manifest any situation we desire; it also gives us the tools to eliminate fear and worry with equal effectiveness. Mind Power is simply the most powerful set of tools we will ever have in our lives.

Eliminating Fear and Worry: Rule number one: If you know what it is that you don’t want to happen to you, then don’t think those fearful thoughts. If you can remember this rule and say it to yourself as a mantra, so that it imprints into your subconscious, you will be halfway towards eliminating fear and worry from your life forever. The other half will come from following these ten techniques:

1. Next time you find yourself fearful, take a few good long breaths, relax and realize that the only thing making you fearful this very moment is the thoughts you are thinking. It is not your present circumstances, nor something that may or may not happen to you in the future; it is the thoughts you are thinking now. You are the cause of your fear. Resolve to change this.

One of the ways you can do this is by spending several minutes focusing on the exact opposite of what you have been fearing. Whatever the fear has you focusing on, change the focus to the exact opposite. You don’t need to fight fear. Observe it carefully to see what it is suggesting to you, then simply focus on the opposite. For example, if you are fearing losing your job, focus on being competent, doing a good job and being respected and rewarded accordingly. If you are fearing losing your money, focus on being successful financially, making smart decisions and living an abundant life.

Fear is fed by your thoughts, and taking your thoughts away from fear eliminates it. Fear does not usually appear overnight. It often has its root in regular worrying, which then progresses to the point where it becomes fear. So to eliminate this happening we eliminate worrying. Easier said then done? Not at all, once you understand and practice the principles.

2. Practice the five techniques for eliminating negatives (see the Mind Power practices section of this website.)

3. Recognize that the essential component of worry is always “future orientation.” In other words, when you worry, you invariably focus on something that might happen but hasn’t happened yet. You might argue that you worry about the things that are happening right now, not in the future. A closer look, however, will reveal the truth that worry is like a ghost tormenting you with a terrifying view of the future. It is always about the future. Knowing this takes away the power of this view.

4. Track your worries by keeping a journal of them. You can’t change worrying until you know what you’re worrying about. What are the common themes of your worrying? Health? Finances? Relationships? Family? Know where you are most vulnerable. Knowing this will help you recognize worrying when it slips into your mind.

5. Learn the difference between concern and worry. Concern about the different aspects of our life and what may or may not happen is valid and beneficial. It allows us to view our life and to be proactive in making positive choices. This is a very constructive process. Worry, on the other hand, is simply focusing on what could go wrong. It has no positive aspect to it. Not only are we focusing on this negative outcome but also we are giving it energy. Why would you do that?

6. Recognize the cost of worrying. Yes, there is a cost. Firstly, it causes stress, which in turn affects our health and our decision-making process. You don’t make good decisions when you’re worried. Secondly it actually attracts to us the circumstances we are worrying about, especially if we start to fear it. Understanding this, we choose to not worry. It is not worth the time or effort, and it is always counterproductive.

7. Challenge catastrophic thinking: Most of us exaggerate our situations during fearful times, projecting ourselves into the most dire circumstances. We let worry carry us away. Resolve to not let this happen. There are solutions to every problem, and undoubtedly it will not become as bad as the fear is projecting. Don’t let worst-case scenarios dominate your thinking. There is every possibility that the situation won’t be a bad as you think, and it could be a whole lot better. There may well be hidden benefits and blessings that you haven’t even thought of.

8. Trust that the Universe will unfold as it should. Have faith that what is meant to happen will happen and that it will be for the best. If you have a spiritual belief, then let this nourish and guide you. Let go of the worry and realize neither God nor the universe wants you to worry. Worry is showing lack of trust. It means you have no faith. Trust and act in a proactive way. What you can change, change. What you cannot, leave it alone. There are always forces at work beyond what we can understand. Trust in them and assist them by expecting the best.

9. Practice Mind Power. The daily practice of Mind Power will keep worry from overpowering you. Fear and worry will find no fertile place to take root in a mind that is aware and conscious of itself. Mind Power is your best friend and most powerful tool. Use it.

10. Have some fun. Fun is one of the most honest and reassuring feelings. It always acts as healing balm, restoring our sense of balance. Our situations always seem different and less stressful after a time of fun. And you don’t have to spend money to have fun. Fun is possible in almost any situation. Play with your kids and do something outrageous. Go to the park and roll around on the grass. Spend an afternoon reading in the sun. The ways of having fun are endless, limited only by your imagination and willingness to do it. Reward yourself with some fun every day.

What You Need to Know After Take action. Taking action will create momentum, while also building evidence towards creating the belief that your manifestation is unfolding.

What You Need to Know After
Take action. Taking action will create momentum, while also building evidence towards creating the belief that your manifestation is unfolding.

Act as if it has already happened. “I AM” is a creative, powerful phrase. If you conduct your behaviour as the person you have already become, you are more energetically aligned with your goal.

Be aware of your internal dialogue. Remember, you are in a constant state of attracting or repulsing what it is that you want to achieve. Your internal dialogue is always creating a point of attraction, along with the emotional reactions it produces. Be congruent!

Allow! You must fully release your vision in order for it to manifest. If you are too attached to it, your need for control can stunt the process. Faith and belief in the process are key. It can be helpful to think in terms of being at a restaurant. Once you’ve placed your order, you have to give it time to be cooked up and served to you!

We are all creators, and we all deserve to live an inspired life. The Law of Attraction is a beautiful tool that enables us to put our creative powers to use consciously! In the words of George Bernard Shaw, “Life isn’t about finding yourself, it’s about creating yourself.”

How to stay calm

How to stay calm in tense situations
A lot of people seem like they have a good personality until you see them in an emergency or tense situation. Then they lose their cool. Don’t be this person! If you are in a tense situation, try to remain relaxed and see what you can do to resolve the situation.

For example, lets say your car breaks down on the highway, and you’re going to be late to work. Don’t start yelling and screaming – that’s not going to fix anything. Keep your mind clear and start developing a plan to solve the problem.

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MANIFEST THE BODY OF YOUR DREAMS💙💙

MANIFEST THE BODY OF YOUR DREAMS
Does your dream body look or feel different than the body you have now? Do you want to lose weight, gain muscle, heal a condition, or improve your body’s health, functioning or fitness? Have you been trying to reach your goals but haven’t fully accomplished them yet?

These four mind-body shifts can help!

1. Get clear on how you want to feel.
How do you think you will feel when you have the body of your dreams? Let’s say you want to lose weight. How will you feel when you reach that number on the scale? Will you feel more confident? Sexy? Feelings are the key to any manifestation. Include images that activate those feelings when you are visualizing your dream body.

2. Clarify the energy behind your actions.
Are you exercising to lose weight? Are you going to the gym because you hate your body? According to the law of attraction, the universe will give you more of the same. More needing to lose weight. More hatred of your body. However, you can exercise because you love your body. You can exercise because your health is a priority or because you appreciate that your heart is pumping and you want it to keep pumping! Are you trying to change yourself? Or are you being the person you want to be, in the body of your dreams? That shift can make the biggest difference.

3. Act as if you have the body you want.
Chances are, most, if not all of the changes you’re making to reach your goals, will still have to be maintained once you reach them. Once you lose weight, you will still have to exercise and make healthier food choices. Engage in those actions now. Every day. Even if it’s in a small way.

4. Remember, your body allows you to live your dreams.
It’s easy to focus on what your body looks like or what it can’t do. Each and every one of us was given a body, and it’s the only one we are getting! Any dream you have, you need your body to accomplish it – to experience it, see it, touch it and feel it. Love and appreciate your body. Thank it for supporting your dreams and the universe will support you, too!

Some tips to help you to combine the law of attraction and weight loss for your idea of the perfect body that you desire.
1) State what you want. Say it out loud to yourself or write it down and describe what you want in detail and state how it will make you feel to achieve this goal.

2) If you can find a picture of that body that you desire. Cut it out and display it in a place where you will see it daily. Or you can create a vision board with pictures of what you desire and feel good when you look at it.

The key is when you see this picture imagine it as your own body. You can cut out a picture of your face and place it on the picture of the person with your desired body if it will make it easier to visualize it as your own. (And try not to condemn the food that you eat, be thankful for the food as you are eating and visualize yourself getting slimmer with each bite).

3) Express gratitude daily for your perfect body, skin, nose or whatever you desire daily. Say thank you as if you already achieved what you desire.

4) Believe that what you want is already yours and stay focused on what you desire and not on what you currently see and what you want will come into your existence.

I have heard and witnessed several stories of people who have combine the use of the law of attraction and weight loss and they have transformed their bodies.

I have also heard of people using the law of attraction to increase their hairline, vision, height and even to slim down their noses without surgery.

I have a friend that always says “I can eat whatever I want and I never gain weight” and she eats more than anyone that I know and true to her words she has been slim all of her life. You get what you believe.

I have heard stories of so called “ugly ducklings” whose dreams were to become models growing into beautiful swan, just by believing in the fact that they are truly beautiful, their looks changed into their ideal vision of themselves and ending up pursuing modeling careers.

My best friend’s son learned from his doctor that he was only going to be 5ft 4inches tall. He was not happy with this news so he refused to believe it, so he focused on growing much taller than what the doctor stated. Now he stands at about 5ft 9in tall and still growing.

I have heard stories of people throwing out prescription glasses because they believed strongly that they had perfect eyesight only to regain their perfect eyesight in days.

So, as you can see you can you use the law of attraction and weight loss to attract the body of your dreams or anything else that you want and desire.

The key to deliberate creation is to ask, focus on what you want and believe that it is already yours and remember to remain thankful and what you want will be your new reality.

And always remember to choose the way that you way YOU want to look, not the way someone else want you to look.

Because, what I have noticed is that if you gain weight people will say you are too fat, if you lose weight then they will say you are too skinny.

So, what I have learned is that I have to choose the way that I want to look that pleases me because you will never be able to please anyone else and why should you. You should only want to please yourself. The only person that truly matter!

This post starts with what was, and what will destroy the World 💣💣

What a wonderful place it was

No computers to Scam you

No computers to troll you

No computers to harass you

No computers to lead you astray

What on Earth did we create

Hell, on Earth for our future children

Eternity has no beginning and no end.

Cyber as we know it is the giant that will destroy our BEAUTIFUL World

We used to worry about climate change

We used to worry about the rubbish in the ocean

We used to worry about the environment

We used to worry about oxygen supplies, power and petrol.

We worried about murdering innocent souls in War

WAR in Cyberspace, TECHNOLOGY will destroy the World

Start debating this man made Giant Computer that now runs the World out of control. No being no ending

Peace be with us

How to be Beautiful💥💥💥

How to be Beautiful
How to be beautiful with the Law of Attraction is a question I’m asked quite frequently. It’s something I understand quite well…

Growing up, I wanted to be beautiful. I never felt like I was good enough…or pretty enough. I just wanted to feel loved and accepted.

Even when people told me I was beautiful, I didn’t believe it. I didn’t see my beauty.
Over the years, my self-esteem did increase, but I still never felt beautiful enough. No matter how much I looked in the mirror, I saw the ugly duckling – the same person I had always been. I didn’t, I couldn’t, see the person everyone else told me they saw.

Maybe it’s all the pressure put on us by the modeling and film industries – the pressure to be the perfect size zero; the pressure to always look our best at all hours of the day; the pressure to have the perfect hair, the perfect teeth, the perfect skin, the perfect everything…

None of it has anything to do with who we really are. And in our quests for perfection, we miss the very things that people appreciate the most about us, the things that make us the most memorable.

When you spend all of your time criticizing yourself, you never allow yourself to see the wonderful things that make you beautiful.

When you appreciate all the wonderful things you have done in the world, all the amazing talents and skills you have, all the things that make you a terrific person – you become beautiful!

You begin to shine from the inside out. People notice. You notice!
“Beauty is how you feel inside, and it reflects in your eyes. It is not something physical.” – Sophia Loren
Beauty isn’t about perfection. It isn’t even about being the prettiest person. It’s about confidence.
No matter what you look like, if you hold your head high and project an air of self-confidence, you will look and feel beautiful.
Confidence comes from realizing how amazing you are.
Focus on your good qualities, inside and out:

When were you there for someone who needed you?
When did you tell someone what you appreciate about them?
When did you help someone feel good about him or herself?
When did you do something for someone without expecting anything in return?
When did you accept someone for who they are?
When did you find something in nature beautiful?
When were you strong in a difficult moment?When did you speak nicely about someone instead of gossiping or complaining?
When did you make someone laugh?
When did you take the high road when someone wronged you, instead of being cruel or vindictive?
When were you optimistic when everyone around you was filled with fear or doubt?
When did you honor your values and the things that matter most to you?
When did you love and accept yourself?
You are already beautiful! You may not do these things every day, but you are still beautiful.
You don’t have to be perfect every day to be beautiful. It’s choosing to realize how great you are that makes you beautiful. It’s choosing to be the best person you can be in the present moment that makes you beautiful.

Smile at the wonderful, beautiful person you already are, have always been and always will be.

LETTER TO MY HUSBAND

 

My husband is perfectly suited to me cause he knows exactly why I love him just the way he is when he’s tired

The weekend creeps around

And I wait all week fantasizing what tantalizing games we may do together

Dress ups really tantalize my Husband’s body

He loves me cause he knows exactly why I love him just the way he is when he’s on edge

My husband loves everything I do for him on weekends especially massage dates

Toes pointing

Oh my,

Knocked out again

Here is the about people with kind hearts

They give you excuses when you don’t explain yourself. They except apologises you don’t give. At your worst they lift you up, even if it means their priorities aside.

It’s because they don’t make you work hard for the attention they give you.

They accept the love they think they’ve earned and you you accepted the love you’re entitled to.

Let me tell you something

Fear the day when a good heart gives up on you. Our skies do not go grey out of nowhere. Our sunshine does not allow our darkness to take over for no reason.

A heart does not grow cold unless it’s been treated with coldness for a while