Honestly 🌟

Beauty is being the best possible version of yourself on the inside and out.

Don’t be afraid to show the real You, if people don’t like it sorry honey it’s your loss.

The truth requires less stress and energy than trying to concealing one’s stories.

If you cant rectify the truth, dont ask me to be honest.

Our true self is being who we are.

I rather go on in life being me and imperfect, than seeking to be what someone else expects.

Just be yourself because everybody else is taken.

Hurt me with the verity. But never comfort me with an untruth.

Don’t tell me long-distance relationships don’t work out, because as far as I can see local relationships don’t work any better.😁

If you ask me an honest question, I am going to give you an honest answer.

A fake person will make a mistake and act like it never happened, a REAL person will make a mistake, admit it and apologize regardless of the consequence!

I’d rather be detested for my character than liked for my lack of it.

Never fake yourself just to look perfect because Perfection is never real and Reality is never Perfect!

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As an advocate I hear and see so many great things, I am blessed to be surrounded by so many kind, supportive and inspirational advocates, we all get on so well.

As an advocate I hear and see so many great things, I am blessed to be surrounded by so many kind, supportive and inspirational advocates, we all get on so well.

Then, very sadly I see the evil side. Not evil people as such, but certainly acts of cruelty, harassment, and bullying that I find shocking and unacceptable.

They are a minority and do not represent our community, but they do follow their egos and secret agendas.

Worst of all is that it is autistic people bullying other more vulnerable autistics and it is disgraceful and cowardly.

I am proud that my page, followers and ethos has been impeccable over nearly 8 years running of the page.

I want to make it publicly known that I feel fearful that one day a more vulnerable autistic person/parent or carer may be driven to suicide by these attacks and this is not acceptable.

This page condemns such acts of cyberbullying and will also not tolerate those who cyberbully, harass, stalk and threaten fellow advocates/autistics/ friends.

My page does not associate with such individuals and as a matter of politeness and courtesy I do not call out or name people on the page nor do I gossip.

To those who bully you are taking a huge risk, if someone is harmed you could be held responsible and might even face prosecution.

Remember there are cosequences for our actions and what we say, cyber bullying can be a criminal offence or liable to legal action.

Please be kind to each other, be inclusive, and build a community that leads by example.

As advocates no matter what our differences, we should be aware that we are working for the greater good of the community and not to use that as a tool for ego and petty agendas.

Thank you 💙🙏

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Don’t harm others 😌 [ Broken Soul ]

Learn from the past, move on, grow stronger. People are fake, but let your trust last longer. Do what you have to, but always remain true and never let anyone get the best of you.

Never trust someone who will just get up and tell you another person’s story or secrets, cause they’ll share yours just the same.

The only ‘normal’ people that you may know are the people you really don’t know very well.

People forget who they are because they are too busy trying to prove to the rest of the world that they are something else.

When you become successful,you will get many false friends and true enemies.

Be careful who you tell your feelings too cause some people are waiting for the opportunity to use them against you.

People forget who they are because they are too busy trying to prove to the rest of the world that they are something else.

When fake people walk away from you, let them walk. It’s their choice, your destiny is never tied to anyone who left. You will surely be left with those that adores your company with positive mind.

Most of the people are only in our lives for THEIR benefit, as soon as your role is done, they move on to someone else like it’s nothing.

There are some people who come in your life pretending that they love you only because they need you.

Fake people have an image to maintain. Real people just don’t care.

Being kind to someone, only to look kind to others, defeats the purpose of being kind, Dont harm them !

People with egos are like cheap clothes with high price tags. They are not worth, what they advertise!

Money does not buy friends it rents them. When you are out of money, Your lease is up.

Some people are like clouds,when they disappear, it’s a beautiful day.

Editor’s note: I have written harsh words up above 😌 my intention here is open the door to your comments 😌

Sometimes we attract people who have their own agenda in life. We also these people ” “Pederators”

We have all meet them on our journey

Red flags

Never ignore that gut feeling. Sometimes it called “seven sense”

Predators are highly skilled, the grooming is called ” Abuse ”

They say all the things you need to hear!

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HOW TO DATE ONLINE THE RIGHT WAY (AND THE WRONG WAY)

Originally posted on The Goddess Attainable: Even though I am no longer single, the horrors of dating are still fairly fresh in my mind, body, and soul. I was single and in the online dating arena for roughly 10 years, and I don’t believe things have advanced that much in the last 2 1/2 years…

HOW TO DATE ONLINE THE RIGHT WAY (AND THE WRONG WAY)
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Fragments of her ❣

She’s fragments of mechanisms Created from universal creation, Bits and pieces like a clockwork beauty With wheels and cogs all moving, A precision piece of art never to be forgotten The more I look, the more I see how her form begins to soften, Into fluidity and gracefulness like I’ve never seen before. Image courtesy […]

Fragments of her

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Music is the literature of the heart; it commences where speech ends.

Quote of the Day: For Those who are Struggling

“This is for the ones who are struggling right now. This is for the ones who have been having a rough day, or week, or year. The ones who feel like this storm will never end. Keep on fighting for YOU. Not for your friends, not for your family, but for YOU. Keep fighting because […]

Quote of the Day: For Those who are Struggling
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Broken Soul 😌

Don’t ever make the mistake of thinking kindness is a weakness, sometimes it takes great strength to just smile and say kind words.

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The greatest mistake I ever made was to be afraid of my mistakes. They are my stepping stones to greatness!

There comes a time when you have to stop remembering your mistakes and move on. No regrets in life. Just lessons.

I fall, I rise, I make mistakes, I live, I learn, I’ve been hurt but I’m stronger, I’m human, I’m not perfect, but I’m thankful.

My life. My choices. My problems. My mistakes. My lessons. Not your business. Mind your own problems before you talk about mine.

One of the greatest challenges in life is to find someone who knows all your flaws, differences, and mistakes, and yet still thinks you’re absolutely Amazing

You can never make the same mistake because the second time you make it, it’s not a mistake, it’s a choice.

I wish I could’ve lived my life without making any wrong turns, but that’s impossible. A path like that doesn’t exist. We fail. We trip. We get lost. We make mistakes. And little by little one step at a time we move forward. It’s all we can do

Living might mean taking chances but they’re worth taking, Loving might be a mistake but it’s worth making.

The best thing about making mistakes is that we can learn something from them.

I live this life every day. I make my share of mistakes, and every lesson I learn, I learn the hard way. I do the best that I can and I hope you understand

The mistakes of the fool are known to the world, but not to himself. The mistakes of the wise man are known to himself, but not to the world.

I realize that life is risks. It’s acknowledging the past, but looking forward. It’s taking a chance that we will make mistakes, but believing that we all deserve to be forgiven

Its funny how you can do nice things for people all the time and they never notice. But once you make one mistake, its never forgotten.

A life spent making mistakes is not only more honourable, but more useful than a life spent doing nothing

Editor: Category, Broken Soul, is dedicated to all victims of Abuse.

Broken Soul has many Authors who have travelled this path of suffering mental tormented journey silently

Many words written may shock you or you may shed tears.

These are emotional handwritten diaries also.

Victims carry the guilt and stigma silently

This category intends to speak up and to encourage all victims to break barriers against Abuse.

We write sexual abuse, sexual slavery, Domestic abuse whether male or female abuse

Nassim – Race – Gender – Animal –

Human Rights Watch

Mental Health

Aged Care Commission

Some Posts have Legal Waivers attached

Don’t stay silent stand up against Violence it kills

Make your story public be proud you are a Survivor 🔒

Together we did survive 🧤

We invite anyone to post their stories here by email at mydaz101@gmail.com

All emails are treated with reverence. No names please, we will publish only after we post back to you the draft.

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For advice and survivors of Narcissists


Why do narcissists withhold affection?





A narcissist withholds affection (or sex) for a number of reasons

Please be aware that every narcissist or pwNPD is a bit different, but in my own experience and those of people close to me who were in relationships with narcissists or pwNPD, they withhold affection for the following reasons:


They feel or perceived that you did something wrong to offend them, accuse them, criticize them, blame them, question them, or anything that made them uncomfortable or put on the spot.


They are feeling bored and need to amp up the drama in the house so they withhold to make you freak out wondering what you did wrong, why they’re mad at you, why aren’t they attracted to you, are they losing interest in you, what can you do to win back their affection and make them want you and “desire” you and touch you again.

This plays right into their hands and makes them feel god-like as you bend over backwards to appease them, cater to them, stroke their feathers and “ooh” and “ahhh” over them.


They are talking to other women/men and getting attention and adoration outside of the relationship, so they are not as into you as they would be if you were currently their only option.


They haven’t withheld affection in a while and they notice you getting extra relaxed, content, happy, and almost giddy with your peppy positivity that is “you” but that they have worked so hard to snuff out.

This can’t happen so they need to remind you of your place and put you back there, which is walking on eggshells and not knowing where you stand with them at any given moment.


They are feeling down on themselves, in a particularly low mood and envious of the news of a friend or neighbor who got a new Tesla, bought a new boat or has been looking ripped from regularly working out, so they must make you feel like crap so they can feel better than someone.

They also haven’t liked how sexy you have been looking since you started running and toning up your tanned legs so they have to destroy that confidence you’re gaining by taking affection and sex away and acting like you are nothing.

Making you feel like they are repulsed by the thought of even sitting close to you to watch a movie.


Regardless of why the narcissist withholds affection, their goal in doing so is to cause a negative reaction in you, or to cause you to feel negatively about yourself.

It is to make you doubt your place in their life, doubt your value and doubt their devotion to you.

This in turn causes you to constantly try to get back to the place of idealization and where they looked at you like you had dropped straight from heaven just for them.

Withholding affection and sex is emotional abuse and pure manipulation.

It is evil, sick, calculated, and malicious.

It has NO PLACE in a healthy relationship and at the first hint of it, a person should address it so that it never happens again, or they should abandon ship and leave the relationship.

THIS IS DEATH TO ANY FEELINGS OF TRUST, INTIMACY, SAFETY or SECURITY.

You deserve better, and we all deserve better.


To sum it up, if you are in a relationship with a narcissist who is withholding affection or sex from you and they have a history of doing so, just remember that while they are neglecting you in that way, there are a million men(or women) out there who would give their left arm for a chance to be with you.

Someone who uses withholding as a form of communicating their anger, disappointment, pain, does not love you and is not on your team.

They are working against you and any chance at success and happiness in the relationship.

I hope this helps you in some way if you are going through this now.

It is never going to improve and will always end the same for you

Disappointment and unhappiness.

Pastor John McMartin of Inspire Church Liverpool, Sydney, Australia. John McMartin has been arrested and charged with a sexual assault against a 19 year old female congregant.

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