Your feelings will want to pay people back. Feelings will tell you, “Get in there and get even. Stand up for yourself”.
If you let feelings rule you, you’ll get upset. You’ll end up giving away your joy.
It says in Psalms, “God has given us the power to remain calm in times of adversity”.
It doesn’t say God will keep all the adversity from us, keep the negative chatter, the opposition.
It says, adversity will come, we’ll have opportunities to get upset, but God has given us the power to stay calm!