Thought of the day ~

He whom love touches not walks in darkness✨

Society teaches us to value the welfare of others over our own. And this is often the reason why we feel conflicted when faced with a choice between helping others and helping ourselves. In the end, we usually choose other people. We enjoy the feeling of being magnanimous and charitable when we help others. It provides us with a sense of fulfillment. Giving to others makes us feel that life is meaningful.

However, occasionally we go too far. Even when we have nothing left to give, we still do. We forget ourselves. We exchange our priorities, our plans, and our ambitions for those of others. We fail to set limits and sacrifice too much for other people. As a result, whatever time, money, or energy that is meant for ourselves we give to those around us.

Do we fulfill when we do this? Or are we just avoiding the feeling of guilt that arises when we don’t give? Is this so-called meaningfulness that we experience merely an excuse, a rationalization? When we give beyond what we should, is this helping? Or are we encouraging dependence on ourselves?

When confronted with a choice between ourselves and others, sometimes we should choose ourselves also. It’s not selfish to do this. Because when we sacrifice too much, we are prioritizing others at our own expense.

We should find time to do what we enjoy. We ought to develop our abilities and be all that we can be. And we need to stay healthy in every aspect of life. The only real way we can be of any good to the people around us is by taking care of ourselves first. Only when we are complete, whole, and happy can we be of greater help to those who truly need us.


Life is like a bunch of roses. Some sparkle like raindrops. Some fade when there's no sun. Some just fade away in time. Some dance in many colors. Some drop with hanging wings. Some make you fall in love. The beauty is in the eye of the beholder. Life you can be sure of, you will not get out ALIVE.(sorry about that)

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