Category Archives: KINDNESS

Be Kind To You ~

No one can insult or hurt you without your permission. One of the golden keys to happiness and great success is the way you interpret events which unfold before you. Highly successful people are master interpreters. People who have attained greatness have an ability which they have developed to interpret negative or disempowering events as positive challenges which will assist them in growing and moving even farther up the ladder of success. There are no negative experiences only experiences which aid in your development and toughen your character so that you may soar to new heights. There are no failures, only lessons. Take a speed reading course. Reading is a powerful way to gain many years of experience from a few hours of study. For example, most biographies reflect the strategies and philosophies of great leaders or courageous individuals. Read them and model them. Speed reading will allow you to digest large quantities of material in relatively small periods of time.

Remember people’s names and treat everyone well. This habit, along with enthusiasm, is one of the great success secrets. Everyone in this world wears an imaginary button that screams out “I WANT TO FEEL IMPORTANT AND APPRECIATED!”.

Be soft as a flower when it comes to kindness but tough as thunder when it comes to principle. Be courteous and polite at all times but never be pushed around. Ensure that you are always treated with respect. Never discuss your health, wealth and other personal matters with anyone outside of your immediate family. Be very disciplined in this regard.

Be truthful, patient, persevering, modest and generous.

Soak in a warm bath at the end of a long, productive day. Reward yourself for even the smallest of achievement. Take time out for renewal of your mind, body and spirit. Soon all your more important goals will be met and you will move to the next level of peak performance. Learn the power of breathing and its relationship with your energy source. The mind is intimately connected with your breathing. For example, when the mind is agitated, your breathing becomes quick and shallow. When you are relaxed and focused, your breathing is deep and calm. By practising deep, abdominal breathing, you will develop a calm, serene demeanor that will remain cool in the hottest of circumstances. Remember the rule of the Eastern mountain men: “to breathe properly is to live properly.”

Recognize and cultivate the power of autosuggestion. It works and is an essential tool in maintaining peak performance. We are all performers in one way or another and it is particularly valuable to use such techniques of athletes and public figures for our own enhancement. If you want to become more enthusiastic, repeat “I am more enthusiastic today and am improving this trait daily”. Repeat it over and over. Purchase a legal notepad and write out this mantra 500 times. Do it for three weeks with regular practice and feel that this quality is developing. Very soon it will come. This is a strategy that Indian sages have employed for thousands of years to aid their spiritual and mental development. Do not be discouraged if the results are not immediate, they will certainly develop. The spoken word is a powerful influencer of the mind.

Maintain a diary to measure your progress and to express your thoughts. Writing out not only your successes but your troubles is one of the world’s most effective methods of erasing the worry habit, staying in optimum state and developing precision of thought.

Be Kind ~
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Letter to my Husband ~

Hear the whisper at the window

Let me in

How I ever lived without you

I don’t know

Yes I know how different times are

But, honey love never changed from the beginning of time

Take all I am

Fill my soul with loving embrace

Touch me tenderly

Wipe my tears with your lips

I’m happy to spend time resting on your shoulder

Softly stroking my hair

These are precious little moments in time

There will be times to lay your hand on my pillow

Whispering sweet words of wisdom

Soothing my soul

This is our moment in time

I’ll take you sweet breath

Unto time opens up the heavens above

Floating somewhere in time together

You are my favourite man who knows to make life a miracle

You are my beloved Husband

LETTER TO MY HUBAND ~

Sex~

These days, SEX, this confusing, wonderful, exhilarating expression of love, attraction and desire  seems to have become a subject of the most profound misunderstanding since the beginning of time. The porn industry and so called “liberation” have been misinterpreted to the point where many now associate sex with a deep sense of insecurity, performance anxiety and a deep abyss of human low points.

Porn has of course nothing to do with liberation – only manipulation. I know, this isn’t a popular standpoint, but it’s nevertheless true. Porn has gone from slightly risque photos, or drawings, to a global marketing strategy to turn sex into a violent, cruel and often perverted act in the human mind. Nothing could be further from our instincts, our human nature and the love, we all desire and want at the core of our beings. It has managed to turn teenagers into aspiring “porn stars” (that very expression is an oxymoron) before they have the emotional or even physical maturity to understand their own sexuality.

Just like any skill or activity you want to become proficient in, sex, which is that much more entwined with our emotions and deepest feelings, it’s important to stay with the basics before you get into advanced techniques. You wouldn’t throw a nine year old out in a dangerous current or waterfall to teach it how to swim, yet this is what happens to way too many teens and even younger children when it relates to sex. They explore the web and find porn sites not even the hardest or most seasoned of humans could watch without some part of them shuddering in horror.

That kind of sex has nothing whatsoever to do with the playfulness, the delight, the warm feelings of sharing, of safely exploring this wondrous aspect of human life. I wouldn’t even call it sex, at all.

I lived with a porn addict and fetishist for a few years. I had up to that time never ever encountered anything remotely like it. And just like any addict, he was very good at manipulating and lying in a way that had me utterly confused for too long (now when I have 20/20 vision in the rear view mirror I’d have left him after a fortnight). That said, just to explain how I even got started examining and scrutinizing the porn industry and my deep sense of sadness for anyone who confuses porn with sex. They miss out on the most delicious experience.

Since I have always had a zest for life, for love, for play and sensuality, this experience resulted in a book. I wanted to give examples of how pleasurable and fun sex, and love, can be while also describing what it is our children are subjected to nowadays, without any guidance. SEX is meant to be heavenly and the easiest and fastest way to experience that is to generously, and on every occasion season it with obscene amounts of (self-) LOVE.

Alan Watts ~

To have faith is to trust yourself to the water. When you swim you don’t grab hold of the water, because if you do you will sink and drown. Instead you relax, and float.

                    -Alan Watts
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Kindness ~ Let It Be

Please respect Humanity
Be kind, thoughful.
Never judge any person.
You never know just what they live with
Every moment of their lives..
Remember to own your own backyard
Respect your love ones, never take your family for grated
Never question others personal lives..
DON’T disrepect others disabilities ..
Never emblish rumors about others unless you want to be damged
If just one person practiced humanity every day wouldn’t this be a wonderful world.
“If you can not say anything constructive, positive, complementary,
“DON’T SAY ANTHING AT ALL”
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Signs of Maturity ~ Wisdom

You forgive

You respect differences

You don’t force love

You accept heartaches

You don’t judge

Small talks no longer excite you

You become more opened minded

Sleep is better than a Friday night out

You sometimes prefer to be silent than engage in nonexistent thoughts

Your happiness don’t depend from people but from your inner self

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    His mother was 40 years old when Jesse was born. Jesse grew up in a very rough home in Morgantown, West Virginia. Jesse’s father, who was mentally ill, was a violent man and was abusive to Jesse. At 13, his father died leaving his mother to take care of him and his brothers. At the … Read more
  • “The Young Sorceress” by Antoine Wiertz, c. 1857.
    "The Young Sorceress" by Antoine Wiertz, c. 1857. https://youtu.be/m2xnPSRSSzU
  • You’re So Pretty ~
    "THEY" will always question "WHETHER HE LOVES THEM OR NOT!" * The Girls, THEY-will never be caught, * In LOVE's perfect net, Because THERE'RE GAPING-HOLES, you bet! * Because LOVE never engages to confine! * It always allows AMPLE ROOM FOR ESCAPE, and this is FINE, * because GIRLS HAVE LESS FAITH than a mustard … Read more
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