“I am no bird; and no net ensnares me: I am a free human being with an independent will.” from “Jane Eyre” by Charlotte Bronte — British Novelist born on April 21, 1816, died on March 31, 1855
Frederick Carl Frieseke (1874-1939) ~ The Birdcage, ca. 1910,
“The most beautiful people we have known
are those who have known defeat, known suffering,
known struggle, known loss, and have found
their way out of the depths. These persons
have an appreciation, a sensitivity, and
an understanding of life that fills them with compassion, gentleness, and a deep loving concern.
Beautiful people do not just happen.”~ Elisabeth Kübler-Ross
In one word: Self Judgement
Meaning in Dictionary: Shame: Noun
The painful feeling arising from the consciousness of something dishonourable, improper, ridiculizes a person.
Or done by one person to another
SHAME Verb: to cause Shame and humiliate a person arises from conditioning response found in ancient misinformation passed down through mainly indoctrinated family trees encompassing “Man Made Religion” found now to be interpreted as Fact is not a fact at all. ( God must cry )
IDIOMS include Shame: you Shame: feel ashamed ( shocking, cruel thing to say to others )
- Self-mutilation of character
The Human Race has been used by evil ideals to undermind our intelligence, to cause lifelong scars in humans that never heal.
The WORD, SHAME belongs in the same category as Hate, Racism, Ignorance, narcist self-absorbed individual-referred as a narcist troubled with the pompous self-righteousness of self-importance without the regard for a poor soul that you were supposed to support and love, how shockingly cruel are you to shame a loved one.
Yes, a mouthful here to think about!
Kindness using words in the English Language may save humanity and save the Government taxpayers money in the health system Treating Mental Illness.
Many Words in the English Language cause mental illness.
Ask for forgiveness, not rewards when the term used called SHAME spue them from your mouth.
“we are not going that way”
Craig Regan could be set free in as little as 4 years and 10 months after he pleaded guilty to bashing a 13 month old baby boy so badly he left him with blind with permanent brain and spinal injuries.
The baby boy was rushed to hospital on February 20 2015, with severe internal and head injuries and multiple bruises to his body after he was badly bashed by the then 25-year-old Craig Regan. The child’s mother had left the boy in the care of Mr Regan. Doctors told police the child had been shaken vigorously and punched so badly he had damage to his brain, spinal cord and eyes and had suffered a cardiac arrest.
The innocent baby boy will be permanently blind, may never be toilet trained and will need permanent care for the rest of his life.
Child Abuse Squad detectives charged Mr Regan with causing grievous bodily harm with intent, ongoing supply of prohibited drugs and possess prohibited drug. On Monday he pleaded guilty to grievous bodily harm and assault occasioning actual bodily harm at Penrith Court, NSW.
This vile scumbag showed absolutely no remorse for the horror he inflicted upon the child. In the courtroom he almost seemed offended that he was being inconvenienced by the police arresting and detaining him. Typical of child beating cowards !
When sentencing Craig the judge took into account the fact he had been targeted and stabbed several times by inmates. Personally I think that comes with the territory and perhaps if he didn’t want to be a target of retribution from inmates, he shouldn’t have beaten a child so badly he is now permanently disabled.
Quite frankly Craig you can cry me a river about being stabbed, how do you suppose the now 5 year old boy, you beat so badly he is blind and still in nappies….how do you suppose he is doing ?
He is our concern, your health means nothing to me.
4 years and 10 months for this horrific crime is nothing short of a pathetic slap on the wrist handed down by a judge who clearly couldn’t care less for the safety of our children or deterring ice heads from beating children in the future.
This sentence is shameful for the entire judicial process in NSW and I hope you have a long hard look at your future after this absolute shocker of a decision.
Going by the pseudonym Tyanian Barbara on change.org the little boys mother fought for Craigs release, initially believing him to be innocent. She said things like “Everyone who knows Craig Regan knows he is NOT capable of harming my child or any child for that matter.” In her petition to have the man who bashed her son released from prison. She then went on A current affair and said “”I don’t regret ever leaving him in Craig’s care because I trusted him 100 per cent,” she told A Current Affair.
We hope now that he has been found guilty she has re thought her stance.
The baby boy is now 5 and living with his father, who is by all accounts, doing an incredible job under the circumstances. The little one needs full time care and will more than likely for the rest of his life, thanks to the actions of one man.
For those wondering where we got the information about the petition feel free to google Craig’s name, it’s all there.
This poor boy has been put through hell, by his abuser Craig Regan, and also at the hands of a justice system that rarely lives up to it’s name.
Fight on brave boy ! If FACAA can help you in anyway we would absolutely love to do so !
Craig if you didn’t want to be abused by inmates maybe you shouldn’t have hurt this innocent angel leaving him with lifelong challenges.
It really is horrific to be left in the hands of someone who wishes you harm and doesn’t care if you live or die, isn’t in Craig?
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“Why I Buried My Siblings Alive” by Erika Sauter https://link.medium.com/cYR6B3fHwS
Please read this story if you are able
Yes, it will break your heart
Maybe this story will open your door to inspire your human compassion to spread the word further to say it’s not ok to abuse anyone
Meet Rich Fogarty, child sexual abuse survivor and FACAA rep. In 2019 he is helping FACAA take the fight to end child abuse to a whole new level !
“I was built out of my childhood. While much of my personality was forged from a need to be noticed and loved in a crowd of kids, it has made me strive for success in everything I do, and cherish the ones I love. All of us take something from our upbringing, whether it is good or bad. I wouldn’t change the way I was raised, despite the darkness that sometimes crept into my childhood, because I am proud of whom I have become”. – Rich Fogarty, spoken like a true survivor !
Rich was raised in various hotels across New South Wales, Richard and his brother, Rob, spent their afternoons avoiding a rabble of bikies, prostitutes, drunks and drug addicts who frequented the cheap establishments. While their parents worked day and night running hotel restaurants and bars, Richard and Rob ran across hotel roofs, hurled rocks at cars and antagonised hotel guests for their own entertainment.
When a family friend was commissioned to take care of the boys while Richard’s parents were working, Richard made sure he took care of Rob in more critical ways. Richard he was four or five years old when this family friend began sexually abusing him. “I took it upon myself to protect Rob from that sort of danger,” he says. “I would deliberately fight with him to get him to take off. It was my secret, my pain, and not something I could share with anyone else. It was 30 years until I could even speak openly about what happened.”
Much of Richard’s childhood is a blur. The abuse caused him to shut out what happened in those dark years. “The good stuff I remember,” he says. “Our mum filled our lives with love, loyalty and even animals to try and make life as normal as possible. We had a farm out the back of our hotel that we invited all the local kids to. The bad stuff about my childhood I try to forget. I had a rough time in school while this was going on, because I couldn’t trust anyone. It takes that from you, the abuse. You lose the capacity to interact normally with others.”
Normality returned to Richard’s life when the family moved from the hotel where they were staying into another in Mathoura. When the family friend followed the family to that hotel Richard was about six, he was able to escape the abuse a second time when his mother and father sent him and Rob away to stay with his grandparents in Tamworth. The demons that haunted Richard still pursued him.
In about 1990 Rich was being bullied by kids at his school and like a lot of bullying victims he felt powerless to stop their bashings and harassment and so he was forced to run away. This left him feeling powerless and wanting a way to fight back, wanting to stand up for himself he went down to a local fight night.
The night just happened to be headlined by an old friend he hadn’t seen in years, seeing his friend in the main event inspired him and changed the direction of his life forever. He started up martial arts, in particular Mas Oyama’s Kyokoshin Karate which is in some circles called “The hardest Karate”. The thing was he was good, very good and went on to win several knockdown and points sparring titles.
He would then go on and learn all different styles of martial arts including Kickboxing, Thai Boxing, Boxing and Ring Karate. Over a 14 year fight career Richard represented and won state, national titles.
Richard to this day is involved in the martial arts industry as a specialty striking coach whom has worked with some of the worlds best combat sport athletes and coaches in MMA, Muay Thai and Boxing. You can see in the poster he holds pads for UFC and FACAA rep Jake “The Celtic kid” Matthews, UFC heavyweight sensation and friend of FACAA Mark “The SuperSamoan” Hunt, UFC’s Michelle “The Karate Hottie” Waterson, UFC Lightweight legend Donald “Cowboy” Cerone and that’s just the tip of the iceberg, in getting ready for this article Rich sent us photos of himself training Diego “The Dream” Sanchez, Alistair Overeem, the list goes on and on and on. He has held pads for and coaches the whos who of UFC superstars. To say that he is at the top of his profession is an understatement, there are very few out there who can boast such a client list like Rich can.
He now teaches out of Steel City Boxing a martial arts gym in Newcastle, he is an approved FACAA coach and next year will be helping us raise much needed funds to help end child abuse once and for all. I can’t say too much but all I will say is 2019 is ours and we are willing to fight for it !
To say Rich has overcome his childhood is an understatement, like a true survivor he took what would have crushed most people and turned them to addictions and other forms of self medication and used the pain and used the demons that haunted him to help him become a man of strength and unstoppable tenacity ! If he wants it he works his tail to the bone until he gets it and nothing will stand in his way and that is the exact never say die attitude and resilience we want to instil in the FACAA kids that come to us to overcome their ordeals.
Thank you for coming on board with FACAA Rich, we know that with your help we will do great things and take this fight to previously unseen levels !
We are going to end child abuse once and for all, with Rich’s help and the help of all the FACAA reps (who every Saturday night you will meet a new one of and hear their truly inspirational stories), who we like to call the FACAA Army we will take this fight to end child abuse, once and for all, straight to the front lines and we will force them back !
If you don’t believe us, or don’t want to help…that’s cool….. just don’t get in our way !
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