Self Love and Law of Attraction
I’m sure you’ve heard it before–if you want to attract love, you have to love yourself first.
Makes sense, doesn’t it? Yet, no matter how logical it sounds, it’s more common for people to seek love from others while neglecting themselves. Too many of us fall for someone and give all our love to them. Or we give our love to others to earn approval from them because we don’t approve of ourselves. That’s backwards. If you want to attract the true kind of love from others and a life of happiness, be loving to yourself first.
Self-love is a magnet for love. The more you love YOU, the more loving people and situations will be attracted to you.
I’m not just talking about a romantic partner. Love comes in many forms. And, self-love attracts happiness. Every time you do something kind for you, it sends a message to the Universe that you feel worthy of kindness and more kindness comes to you. Every time you show yourself love, you attract the good kind of loving feelings that make you happier. Doing things that put a smile on your face radiates joy out to the Universe, attracting more.
The happiness that self-love creates builds the emotions needed to attract many other things that you want.
Remember, the Law of Attraction picks up your emotions. The more joy and love you feel the more positive your emotions. The more positive your emotions, the more you’re in alignment to attract all the things you want. When I was a DoorMat, I felt down and my emotions were negative. Life plodded by as I struggled to get through each day. Smiles weren’t a common occurrence on my face. I didn’t even know what happiness felt like. My dark emotions from self-loathing attracted more reasons to be unhappy, and snuffed out m ability to love me.
Falling in love with me did the opposite. I thought it would be nice to feel better about me but got a whole lot more! The more I smiled, the more I had to smile about. The more I gave myself, the more I got from others. As my love for me grew, so did my ability to attract what I wanted. My emotions began to soar with joy and that joy sent a message to the Universe to bring it on–all the good that I could handle.
Self-love makes you want to take better care of you. It puts you in the mood to receive, and guess what the Law of Attraction does? It supports you in receiving more. The Law of Attraction is nothing but it is about your thoughts, feeling, and action. Therefore, it called the ‘Law of You’ and when you love yourself, things about yourself, you will actually prepare or influence your thoughts, feelings, and action in your way. You channelize all your energy in a focused way toward realizing your dreams. We have developed this misconception that ‘Love’ means you have to love others, you have to sacrifice yourself, your wishes, dreams for others, you do care for others, do things for others etc. But, the truth is, if you do not love yourself first, you will not be able to do the above to the fullest. When you love yourself, you know what real love is and you can love others the same way you love yourself. That will be the highest order of love. In Law of Attraction, loving yourself to the fullest make you the person of your dream, you will become what you want to be. Because, that’s the way to realize your full potential, to take the right steps and make the perfect moves. You will become successful, abundant, the most beautiful person in the world, wealthiest person of this world, whatever you want to become. But you have practice ‘Self Love’ to achieve that.
Self Love and Law of Attraction