Knowing exactly what you want is by far one of the most important and powerful steps to law of attraction success. Maybe you want a car, vacation, more money, meet someone, solve something, new job, new business, your perfect partner, an idea that will change the world.
Many people have a deep desire to improve their life; however, some never take the time to clearly define it. Without a destination, how do you know where you are going? Once you are clear about what you want, the universe will begin to move it towards you.
If you are unclear as to what you want, ask yourself a few questions like: “How do I want my life to be?” “How much money do I want to make?” “How will I spend my free time?” “What do I want out of life?” Ask yourself expecting the answer.
This has to be something that you truly desire. If it is something big, then you must be committed to making it a reality no matter how much time or how little time it might take. If it’s something smaller then you still have to keep going until you make it a reality.
If you want something amazing then you should have a keen pulsating desire for something great in your life. Not something you think would be nice to have. This is essential for your success in law of attraction success.
With smaller stuff you don’t need to have such a strong desire for it… because the smaller stuff is much easier to conceive as possible and even probable.
Any part of your life that you would like to improve or change, ask yourself questions to determine what you really want. Take the time to really determine your desire and do not move to number 2 until you have done so.
The next step is to look ahead in time with your mind and experience it with effective visualization. Take notice of how it feels; notice how happy you are with yourself for manifesting it. Go to that moment and be there.
Feel grateful that you have what you want in your life. Feel grateful that you proved to yourself that you can create and design your life.
Notice that it did not take too long or too little to manifest, it was perfect timing.
See how it came into your life, you’re just using your imagination so it could’ve come in any way as it’s just one of the possible ways and doesn’t have to be the way… Feel how it all just fell into place. Feel how real and how right it feels that you declared your desire and then got it and how it just now feels part of your life experience.
Go through all of the feelings and emotions you have now that you truly have it. Remind yourself how it felt the day you got it. What a sense of accomplishment that was. How great it made you feel.
Stay right at this moment until you finally feel that you have what you desire.
When you’ve felt that you’ve manifested what you want in your mind then you can move to step 3.
This can take as little as 10 minutes or you can do this as long as you want. The point is to do it until you have felt the emotions related to your desire.
This next step will not make sense or work until step 2 is complete.
Now consider, after you’ve manifested what you desire in your mind, does this actually need to become a reality?
I want your thoughts to really marinate in this question because what you want has just become real to you.
Do you still really need it? Of course you would like it, but you don’t need it. Can you feel why not?
What you should be thinking and feeling is something along the lines of, “this is going to happen at the right time and in the right way. It is going to happen when it’s best for me.”
The feeling is very powerful and it creates a belief that you WILL manifest what you desire. Do not move on until you get experience it.
If you’re having trouble I would suggest moving back to step 2.
When you have that feeling you have activated a powerful part of the law of attraction as you are both attached to your dream and detached from it at exactly the same time.
This demonstrates abundance to the universe as well as showing your subconscious mind your desires.
Begin taking the necessary actions in order to bring your desire into reality. If you’re looking to find the perfect partner, you might start looking at people who pass you by.
If your desire is to get rich, you might start evaluating all of your options for making money and settling on a strategy that will get you the best return on your investment and effort.
Every desire you wish to manifest, fill your mind with research on the subject and become an expert in it. You can have whatever you wish to have with your dominating thoughts and focus. You can manifest without needing or wanting and doing so in a relaxed and detached yet very focused way. That is how you can create what you really want.
Work diligently on your goal and keep your eyes open expecting manufactured coincidences to ‘just happen.’
When a coincidence eventually does show up, gratefully accept it. Pretty soon, your confidence and belief in your ability to manifest will grow stronger.
The final step for law of attraction success is to keep going until the reality in your mind has manifested itself into everyone else’s reality too. You have to make the choice to keep going. If at any point you lose belief in your ability just repeat this to yourself in order to regain focus:
“If it hasn’t happened yet then it’s not supposed to or I’ve missed something. Let’s take a look and see if I missed anything.”
“After all, it WILL happen at the best time in the best way for me.”
I’ve used this countless times in order to continue moving forward.
Be aware of your feelings and doubtful thinking. Do not force these doubts out of your mind. Just see them for what they are, “useless and destructive at getting you what you want.”
You can take complete advantage of the law of attraction and make it work for you instead of against you. Don’t be afraid to manifest something bigger and better too… always be open for a greater manifestation.
Have you ever asked yourself, “How do I make sure I never give up on my dream?”
The answer is that you cannot give up on something that has become real to you. So make it real to you and make your dreams come true.