JfastereftSynergy looks at circle in the wheel as the first invention by man which led to so much progress in the world. The circle is progressive, secular and harmonious. When in a circle, we are all equal, no one is in front and no one behind. No one above and no one below. The hoop of life is also a circle where each and everyone endures his space in a holistic manner without disturbing the scheme of things by nature or Almighty. The Sun, the Moon, the stars and even the earth are all rounded in shape and go about their chores in a regulated manner. Circle is vigorous and regenerative. Our watch, clock, wedding ring and coins are circular in shape. Our Zero makes the circle more emphatic.The cycle of karma and reincarnation are there for the believers.

โ€œONE AND THE SAME?โ€ 09/23/2017 (Saturday)

โ€œWeโ€™re the same!โ€ she said to me.

โ€œWeโ€™re the same!โ€ she said with glee.

โ€œOh, YES, my Love, we ARE the same –

But You and Me, weโ€™re groom and dame!

โ€˜Cause when we KNOW we ARE the same –

Thereโ€™ll be no one โ€˜round here to blame!

For, when we KNOW โ€œThe Sacred Rhyme,โ€

NO ME

NO YOU

No Valentine!

For, when we KNOW we are the same –

Weโ€™ll be just one – no one to blame!โ€

She said: โ€œThatโ€™s โ€˜lame;โ€™ it can not be!โ€

But I was gone – Sheโ€™s now inside me

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SHE

He had a charm that every girl desired
His smile was the kind that only angels aspired
His divine soul was like a star in the sky
His heart was drenched in truth in that ocean of the lies.

His passion was to dance in the shadow of the day
He moved in the sunshine when the world faded to gray
They called him insane but he was a free soul
He loved his life like a crazy lover, no matter what he was told.

All he wanted to do was to live his life the way he wished
That light he aspired was surely gonna be missed
He wrote tales that someday were meant to be heard
He held the quill in his hand and knew the power of a word.

He was just so kind and cared for every soul
His heart was a heavenly spark which shone its light on all
He had a friendly embrace and a smile on his face
He played Mr. nice in each and every case.

SIR

Even though it hurt, he was still holding on
Waiting for a day when all that suffering will be gone
He had a charm that every girl desired
His smile was the kind that only angels aspired.

He was known to be the wisest in the history of existence
He was just bound to be right, no matter the resistance
Helping others was kind of his job
Humanity was something he had that no evil could rob.

He wrote tales that someday were meant to be heard
He held the quill in his hand and knew the power of a word
He had a weakness for in he’d seen it create history
He had witnessed paper carrying realms and ink dissolving hearts in a mystery.

He was like a miraculous happening only once to be found
He was strange and was born to turn the world around
All he wanted to do was to live his life the way he wished
That light he aspired was surely gonna be missed.

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SHE

She was made for the wild not for the cage
No ink was enough to bind her destiny on a page
All those secrets was safe in her keep
They were locked away in a lake so deep.

She could sing passion and love into existence
She knew no limits, nor of any resistance
She was just so different and preferred to be alone
Even her stare felt cold and her soul was long gone.

She had a mind, polished with the ash of gold
It only got brighter as the memories grew old
She was awfully weird in a really awesome way
Like a shooting star in the middle of the day.

She was the fashion sensation of the town
She was reaching high but never left the ground
She didn’t let go of her humanity even though her heart bleed
And hid the pain in the pages of a book that no one was supposed to read.

She was different as her life was lost in mystery
She was born a legend to be remembered throughout the history
Her curiosity led her to the places she’s never been before
It was the beat in her heart and the reason she was breathing for.

Honesty wasn’t just her habit, it was the way of her life
The truth on her tongue sometimes felt sharper than the knife
Her world was bigger, she wasn’t always late
Days fell short, it was just her cheating fate.

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SIR

Even though it hurt, he was still holding on
Waiting for a day when all that suffering will be gone
He had a charm that every girl desired
His smile was the kind that only angels aspired.

He was known to be the wisest in the history of existence
He was just bound to be right, no matter the resistance
Helping others was kind of his job
Humanity was something he had that no evil could rob.

He wrote tales that someday were meant to be heard
He held the quill in his hand and knew the power of a word
He had a weakness for ink he’d seen it create history
He had witnessed paper carrying realms and ink dissolving hearts in a mystery.

He was like a miraculous happening only once to be found
He was strange and was born to turn the world around
All he wanted to do was to live his life the way he wished
That light he aspired was surely gonna be missed.

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SEXUAL ABUSE

Here’s a good read. The post is on my page. Thanks………..Protecting a child after disclosure
Child Abuse Medico-Legal ServicesยทTuesday, September 26, 2017
A scenario that plays itself out almost every time a child visits the Sexual Assault Clinic, is the self-blame and dis-empowerment the parents and the child victim experience.
Whether you are in a normal or dysfunctional family, it is almost impossible to protect your child 24/7. We live in a world where evil is looking for any opportunity to hurt the ones we love. This realization that even the best parent cannot always protect his/her family, is the first step to healing after a child disclosed abuse.
The next very important step is for parents to act strong and not fall apart. A child victimโ€™s experience of the abuse if often drawn from the parentโ€™s reactions. Almost every abused child we encountered at the Clinic, experiences an unbelievable amount of guilt. When a child sees the parentโ€™s horror, anger, crying and often times distraught reaction, to the childโ€™s disclosure, the childโ€™s response is that she* must have done something heinous and caused this reaction. The child might feel that she is a huge disappointment. Often parents will react with anger in saying โ€œwhy did you not tell me before, that this was happening?!โ€ or even โ€œI told you never to allow anyone to touch your private parts!โ€ Parent need to act strongly and need to ensure their own reactions is under control.
No matter how angry or distraught a parent is, remember that the abuse happened to the child, not the parent. The parent is placed in a position of protecting the child against any secondary abuse. Out-of-control parents cause secondary abuse. It is of the utmost importance that the child is assured of the parentโ€™s unconditional love, support and assistance throughout the process that follows disclosure. The parent should be constantly praising the child for her bravery to disclose and for telling the truth. The parent should, as often as possible, assure the child that she is not to blame and did nothing wrong. At no time, never ever, must a parent doubt the childโ€™s truthfulness. Even if after all investigations may find that the child was lying about the abuse. It must be noted however, that children very seldom lie about abuse and that there are reasons why children might lie about it.

The biggest hurt is not the abuse but the fact that a parent did not believe the child

A parent should encourage the child to openly communicate her feelings to them. Use this opportunity to strengthen rather than destroy the relationships in your family. Encourage the child to participate in the process, although often times scary and overwhelming to everyone involved. By allowing the child to consent and participate in the process, gives the child a sense of control over her emotions, body and situation. Never threaten a scared child, rather take the time and explain that everyone involved in the process is on her side and forms part of the โ€œteamโ€ to help her through a very unfamiliar and scary process.
Parents should seek help. Depending on the emotional baggage each parent is already burdened with, the disclosure of the abuse of a child will hundred times multiply the weight of it. Situations that parents could normally deal with in a civil manner becomes impossible to deal with and can cause irreparable damage to any relationship and self-worth. Fathers especially, suffer under self-blame because they could not protect a child and often see counselling as admitting to defeat and a sign of being emasculated. It must be remembered however, that no parent is prepared for the emotional turmoil that a childโ€™s disclosure of abuse can cause. Counselling empowers a parent to understand their own reactions better and gives parents the tools to support the child throughout the process without falling apart.
* Sadly, boys are known to experience abuse different than girls and is less likely to disclose abuse because male victims of sexual abuse believe โ€œreal men do not cryโ€.